What about a time machine for Christmas?

In the morning I had a "tada" moment. I realized that my life mainly revolves around me. That deep down inside I am an incredibly selfish person. That I would rather go to yoga or go workout or do whatever that pleases me instead of going out on a date. I would much rather further my relationship and love for myself instead of having to deal with a relationship with another person. Is this selfish or is this the right thing to do? Must we live in a life where we are destined to please other people before ourselves? I don't think so, but then again I fight odds and conformity. I reached out to my friend about this. I was thinking I was suffering from a mid mid-life crisis. 21 and selfish was the title for myself. Nicole told me that I was doing exactly what I should be doing in life; that I was doing what many women my age should be doing as well. I was living a life where I was trying to make myself happy and not let any guy get in between my happiness and my success in life. Call me selfish if you would like but I will simply tell you that I am happy. Just like that.